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Situationship: How To Stop Breaking Your Own Heart

 


What to Expect from Situationship.

"Situationship: How To Stop Breaking Your Own Heart" is an honest and vulnerable read about getting real about your relationship needs. Sharing from her own experiences, Fope Nkwocha's book Situationship is a heartfelt and powerful book on a drama-free approach to dating. It will challenge you to rethink your relationship-forming habits.


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If I were to describe this book in one word, it would be “Convicting.” It draws you in and subtly gets you to begin a process of self-evaluation. It clearly shows how far self-awareness mixed with intentionality backed up with Christian faith principles, can lead you to a flourishing life full of healthy relationships. If you are looking to improve in the quality of friendships and relationships that you engage in, this is a book for you. 

Fope, keep writing! You struck a goldmine with this one. I’m excited for everyone that will be impacted by this book to make better choices for their lives.

— Chinomnso Akparah

By chapter 2, I'm shocked at how this book knows my life. By chapter 4, I feel like I've just been part of a deeply therapeutic counseling session. With remarkable insight and courageous vulnerability, Fope Nkwocha masterfully breaks down our generation's tangle of misconstrued truths surrounding relationships. I wish I read this book 10 years ago - although it's timeless advice and compelling narrative makes Situationship a must-read for all singles and couples. In a culture desperately lacking biblical discipleship surrounding dating, this book provides both a framework for understanding God's intention for relationships and a roadmap to pursue it. 

Situationship is thoughtful, challenging, gutsy, and hilariously witty. And before dismissing it as a 'woman's book,' think hard about why many marriages today fail - and that's exactly what this book addresses by exploring the views and roles of both genders, and the church community. Through her own personal journey and extensive research, Fope invites us to experience an incredibly rich, beautiful and redemptive model of love that will embolden and equip you to settle for nothing less than God's extraordinary vision for relationships. 

— Christine Wang

Dare to Rethink Your Relationship Forming Habits

In today’s world of dating, relationships have a reputation for starting with a lot of winging it. But what would it look like if things were defined and done with more intentionality? Far from providing a guide on how to do relationships, this book inspires self-evaluation that encourages healthier relationship-forming habits. By blending personal stories with biblical principles on relationships and friendships, Fope Nkwocha shows how self-awareness and intentionality backed up with Christian faith principles, can lead you to a flourishing life full of healthy relationships.

 

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