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Let's talk about Money guys! How does everyone afford those weddings? Are they al born with the money? Are they going broke to put up these shows? Worry not, We're not thinking about them right now, we're talking about YOU and how to even have that conversation with your partner, and when you have it...+ how to stick with the budget you've come up with. Watch this video and more videos on love and life on my Youtube channel Please Watch! Like! Share! and subscribe :)

I got married recently, and I have a ton of valuable info to pass on if you're looking to have a relatively stress free wedding season. I started a youtube series on How to have a Stress Free Wedding . This series is for you if you believe wedding planning does not have to be stressful and you want some guidance from someone who's done this.  I want you to know that you can be sane, and relaxed while planning a fun wedding. And if stressful things happen, I'm telling you how to handle them too.  You can (and you should) enjoy this process., so let me teach you how! Alright, go watch the videos ! They're short and easy to digest. Some things to expect in the series:  How to define your wedding vision Budget: Why it's important to have the money talks early How to manage your emotions (and those of other stakeholders when planning)  A case for weddings on a shorter timeline  Do you need an event planner or is it just a money guzzler? How to Decide.

Guess who started a YouTube channel! Yup, me! Guess who is finally starting to talking more about love? Yeah like the love part of "musings about life and  Love."  Yes, still me!  I hope you enjoy watching this video as much as I enjoyed making it! Please subscribe to get notified when I create more.  I hope you enjoy watching this video as much as I enjoyed making it! Please subscribe to get notified when I create more. Share! Comment! Like! Y'all know the drill.  Thank you! Your support is seriously appreciated :) Watch my video... here's the link ...again :)

These 3 pieces of advice seem pretty basic. But trust me, they're far from basic: Love Yourself, Love Your God, & Love Your Person 1.  Don't awaken love till the time is right;  it's a form of self-love to wait for the right time and person. Bored people think about love a lot, and I can testify. Sometimes you're not craving love and attention; you're just bored. You're not staying in touch with your friends and you're not doing anything outside work or school that give you life. So, whenever you go on Instagram, Twitter, Netflix and see something even remotely romantic you're suddenly aware of your singleness and you imagine that your life will be so much fuller if you had romantic love. But there's so much more to you.  You have friends that need you. You have talents that need to be expressed. You have more money-making opportunities in you. You have organizations that could use your generosity, especially your time. The thing is,

I'm starting a hashtag to chronicle my own love story :D FOBI = Fope + Obi. Look at God! Will Update this with a bomb photo of us later :) Edit: still working on the Bomb photo but for now, I love this goofy one. Drumroll please! yes, bomb photo has arrived! Shout out to @ToluFiz for the fine snaps :). View this post on Instagram Anytime we recount our journey to people, 🤯this is how they react . I like how wild it is. To me, it means we can’t take credit for it. I’m super grateful for the Extravagant gift that Obi is, and even more grateful to the giver of this great gift! God is still doing exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think. #FOBIforever loading !!! 💃🏾 📸: @fiz__co A post shared by Fope (@fopsythegreat) on Jul 12, 2019 at 2:29pm PDT via GIFER