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Meet Me

The  Short Version

 Hello! My name is Fope, well it really is Mofopefoluwa. My blog and now my YouTube Channel are about my musings and the shareable parts of my life. I enjoy writing and I'm learning to do it better. So far on this blog, I have imagined things , thought out loud, and shared life updates. 

I've always seen myself branching out to writing about romantic relationships and I finally did it! I wrote a book, titled, Situationship: How to Stop Breaking Your Own Heart. It's available on Amazon and other places. You can read 3 FREE Chapters and find out where to buy my book here. Soon, I'd like to do a Q and A, something like what you would see in a magazine/ newspaper relationship column. See,  I'm slowly getting there. 
The Extra Details

 I've thought of starting this blog afresh now that I'm a tad bit older and wiser (2018 edit), but I did that to my Instagram before the "Archive" function was a thing, and I regret deleting all those moments. So, I decided I'd leave all the messiness on here and chronicle my growth as I go.

 I really am a Jill of many trades, and I don't intend to leave any interests unexplored. I studied Psychology in undergrad, then I did an MBA. Grad school was an interesting journey, and it stretched me emotionally. I used to think I was pretty resilient, but that humbled me. 

 For work at the moment, I'm a bridge between business and IT people. For work in the future, I want to sell things (both products and services) online, and I want to get businesses to think of the strategy aspect of digital marketing...and invest in it. I'm also super passionate about talking to people about deep things, so there's my love affair with counseling.  As long as I live, I'm sure this list of trades will grow.

 I'm learning to love Jesus deeply and understand what it means to have a relationship with Him. A relationship that makes being a Christian less about rules/structures and more of a logical response to my love for Him.  You know how staying faithful shouldn't be hard if you love and enjoy your spouse? Yeah, like that.

 I really love food, albeit that I've been endowed with a body that's not forgiving of my enjoyment of food.

When I'm not lurking through people's pages on Instagram, fine-tuning some of my many ideas (while hoping I don't let them die as ideas), I'm probably reminding myself that God is bigger than my fears #faithoverFear.

 This blog is a collection of my loosely organized thoughts, and I hope something resonates with you. 

 I'm super stoked that you took the time to read this!  

 Thank you! Thank you! And Welcome!


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